"There is practical advantage/disadvantage of not being married.
Advantage: Two singles pay less tax than a married couple.
Disadvatage: if you have children, the biological-father is not automatically become legal guardian of his children, at least in California.
This means HY need to go through legal process, such as adopting his own son to be a legal guardian of your son.
A friend of mine had gone through this about 5 years ago. "
啊? 老黄完蛋了! 又被艾米忽悠了!
谢谢大家关心, 办了几个小时的"学习班", 老黄终于昏了…
(文学城BUG, 老黄不能跟贴, 在此谢过大家了.)